At the start of a new year, I always take time to think about what is most important to me. My hopes and dreams and wonderful new experiences I would like to enjoy with my family. This year I also reviewed resolutions made in the past and noticed a recurring theme. The intention to make sure that no matter where I am, or what I am doing, to try my absolute best to MAKE EVERY MOMENT COUNT. To make a difference in the lives of the people I love and care about. Whether at home, work or wherever my life’s journey takes me, to try to bring goodness to everything I do. I have come to realize that its actually much easier to stay “busy” keeping up with a busy schedule than it is to be intentional about carving time out of the day to do things that bring greater joy.
Here are a few steps that I have taken to be
more intentional:
- Finding new sources of inspiration. The life of St. Therese of Lisieux continues to enrich my own. I am enjoying the book “The Way of Trust and Love” a Retreat guided by St. Therese by Jacques Phillippe. Fr. Philippe shared these writings as a retreat and at the request of participants, wrote it as a wonderful book.
I may never get to France to enjoy this retreat in person, but I can certainly read the same wonderful writings.Also rising earlier in the day to spend a few quiet minutes reading Scripture. - Volunteerism: Finding small ways to contribute a little bit of time to the church brings a lot of happiness, especially to the people I am helping.
- Reading about people who changed our world for the better: learning about how they accomplished so many great things in the face of great adversity. Here are some great books I recommend to learn about being intentional with your life’s purpose:
- Lincoln on Leadership (Don Phillips)
- A Million Miles in 1000 Years (Don Miller)
- Capturing Grace (Jeremiah)
- Thrive (Arianna Huffington)
- Quiet (Susan Cain)
- The Leader with no title/the Monk who sold his Ferrari (Robin Sharma)
- Figuring out ways I can do less – but be better: Intentionally creating more white space in my day to think and breathe. Basically asking myself, which problems do I want to have and where do I absolutely want to go big? Adopting more of a “I choose to” vs. “I have to” mindset.Essentialism by Greg McKeown is a great book about how to be more discerning when it comes to your time.
This week I am enjoying the creative side of life. Taking time to add a dash of Spring’s beautiful colors to my day, sprinkle sweet scents around the house, draw a beautiful scene and read inspirational writing. We often forget to nourish this important part of ourselves. Creativity is at the heart of everything we do. It’s the fuel that helps us solve complex problems, build relationships with people of different backgrounds and personalities, keep work life balance healthy and most importantly, do something that spiritually feeds our soul. Unfortunately, growing our creative artist doesn’t get top rank on our list of talent building priorities. The tendency is to mainly stay current with the latest advice given by the experts on the “professional” skills deemed most important to succeed today.